“Father is not just a noun; it’s a verb.” In Adam Coleman’s new book out April 1st, The Children We Left Behind, the author explains how fatherhood is often viewed as not just a simple noun (merely one who impregnates a woman) but an increasingly vanishing noun.
If we want stable good homes for our kids, including men who want to be a father - first… it’s really up to the women who have abandoned men, society, womanhood, and being a wife first.
Another pendulum swing to the extreme with identity politics will solve nothing. This is about the children, not about males v females and the never-ending victimhood Olympics, in this case men and children victimized by the dastardly half of the population referred to as females. It takes two adults to tango. Here's an idea for both men and women: don't drop the pants unless married. Voila! No children born to single parents.
Your assumption is that single parents occur only via premarital sex. That’s laughable in an age of no-fault divorce, which is initiated 70-80% of the time by women.
There's a reason for this. Most men don't contribute to the relationship anywhere near the amount women do, and women get fed up with having to be mommy to their own kids plus their husband. I work with other men who can barely remember how old their kids are, much less their birthdays, and who can't take care of themselves or pick up after themselves. And I think to myself, how can they not be ashamed? They're adults who want the responsibilities of children. I came from a large family myself, and everyone pitched in with chores and watching the younger kids and upkeeping the house.
If we want stable good homes for our kids, including men who want to be a father - first… it’s really up to the women who have abandoned men, society, womanhood, and being a wife first.
Another pendulum swing to the extreme with identity politics will solve nothing. This is about the children, not about males v females and the never-ending victimhood Olympics, in this case men and children victimized by the dastardly half of the population referred to as females. It takes two adults to tango. Here's an idea for both men and women: don't drop the pants unless married. Voila! No children born to single parents.
Your assumption is that single parents occur only via premarital sex. That’s laughable in an age of no-fault divorce, which is initiated 70-80% of the time by women.
There's a reason for this. Most men don't contribute to the relationship anywhere near the amount women do, and women get fed up with having to be mommy to their own kids plus their husband. I work with other men who can barely remember how old their kids are, much less their birthdays, and who can't take care of themselves or pick up after themselves. And I think to myself, how can they not be ashamed? They're adults who want the responsibilities of children. I came from a large family myself, and everyone pitched in with chores and watching the younger kids and upkeeping the house.
Men need to stop abandoning their kids, and the women who carry them.